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Alia's 4th birthday cake in the making

So today we made a birthday cake for Alia after the girls' morning at Montessori. We had just enough time between lunch and nap to get it accomplished.

As we made the cake, I was amazed to see just how mature my almost 4 year old has become. The whole way home from Montessori Alia talked about how she was going to help me make her cake. And after lunch was done and it was time to begin, Alia pulled not one but two step stools to the counter. One for Amelie. One for her. From here, she took turns, making sure Amelie got her turn at pouring, mixing, and counting. I felt truly blessed to be able to create this memory with them.

And as we licked the final bit of the putrid looking green batter, we shared in another great moment...

Team Buffi! Project Runway casting call

Okay, here it is!
The most exciting thing to happen for the family! Ajay's cousin Buffi made it on to Project Runway for season 10. We are looking forward to her debut next week.

http://youtu.be/NvNS-PuhqeY

July 13 2012

It's summer here in Laguna Beach. It's the first year in awhile that we've actually been around to enjoy it. Typically we travel early to mid-summer, and this year our holiday plans are much later.

With the delayed holiday, it feels like this summer is truly summer for the girls. They are enrolled in the Montessori's "summer camp" program and loving it. It's a few hours every morning and they are doing lots and lots of new and creative things. Today they replanted all the planter boxes around the school and unleashed a whole container of live ladybugs to keep everything healthy. They were fascinated!

They also have been doing a lot of things in the kitchen. They baked kale in sesame oil. They made a Community Salad where everyone brings in a fruit or vegetable and they combined it all and that was their snack. They've also done endless painting and craft projects. Let's just say that the few hours they are there in the morning delivers me with happy, hungry kids at noon. And there's something very satisfying about seeing your well-stimulated child eat voraciously and then actually want to take their nap at 1:00!

On the weekends we start out by having dinner on Friday night with the girls at the local Italian spot downtown. Saturdays and or Sundays we swim in our pool in the backyard. We are enjoying entertaining friends, having nice lunches with wine followed by nice naps for all. My typical favorite Saturday or Sunday nap-time finds me in the hot tub floating on a couple of noodles and a hat on my face...asleep...while Pandora plays Buddha Bar on my iPhone. To me...that's heaven...even if it's only for thirty minutes.

I am 100% addicted to making home movies!!!

Today, they perform.

You know, as a blogger (even the rustiest blogger like myself) we are always challenging ourselves to record, record, record. Our thoughts, things we notice, funny things that might be funny to other people, too, as well as landmarks...birthdays, anniversaries, firsts (first word, tooth, steps, and yes, in our case the first f-bomb). But what happens when you become like me and fall out of practice of recording daily, weekly, or even monthly and you find yourself feeling the need to backtrack? 

Well I'll tell you what happens. You start thinking you can type from memory. Only, as you saw in my last blog post, our memory isn't so vivid a year (or even a month) down the road. So here's my choice. Rather than racking my brain to try to recapture the past year, please allow me to summarize it for you so I can be free of the guilt and move on in the present.

This past year was tough. My girls offer me endless joy, as most Moms will tell you. They also showed me why my own mother went mad listening to day after day of my brother and sister fighting, talking back, rolling eyes, disrespecting her, not listening to her, and frankly? We  bought she was just pissed off. Having nothing to do with us, of course.

Well last week I called my dear Mom and apologized to her. I'm 40 years old so this apology has been a long time coming. I told her I was sorry for driving her crazy and for all the fighting, all the bad behavior. Because now I get it. And what's the point of this digression? Well, I'll tell you. My girls have also driven me bat shit crazy this year fighting, picking on each other, asserting their independence (read: not doing what I ask of them), pushing each others' buttons. I haven't written a lot because I didn't have much to say other than I'm losing my mind!

Lately it feels that we've turned a corner, however, and we are doing much better. The girls have been trending much better behavior wise. However, just like with any trend, there's good days and bad days. As a Mom I have to constantly remind myself to not lose my mind. And today? They perform....

Alia is 3!

Wow.

I just found this post...from nearly a year ago...and realize I never finished it. We never got around to marking her third birthday.

So here's what I remember of it...a place called Pump it Up. Lots of little kids running and jumping. A happy little girl wearing a pumped up crown. And cake. Lots and lots of cake!

As I write this I'm pulling together Alia's 4th birthday details and recognize how far I've fallen off of recording the daily events of Alia and Amelie's growth and development.

All I can do is keep trying and finding the time where I can. Unfortunately time is the issue, not lack of interest or effort!

Summer 2012

Hello and Happy July!

So yesterday my sister e-mailed me that she had started a blog all about her adventures in Australia, which is where she and her husband moved in February. She wrote that she was inspired to record their time there, and since I've had a blog for so long, maybe she could ask me for help on things...that is, if I remember how to blog considering my 3 posts this year.

Ok.

I get it. I am a lousy blogger this year. And not much better than that last year. But the reality is having a 2 and 3 year old as well as running a house is pretty overwhelming on the whole, and things tend to slide a little. Last year I worked in exercise to my schedule. That's three times a week for about 90 minutes. This year I've worked in taking over all the household stuff and letting my nanny/housekeeper go. So there's that. And with all my other free time? Well, there are tons and tons of tiny little things that I work on when I get a chance. But reality is that there's not much time for anything.

Alia is turning 4 years old this month. I cannot believe how fast that went. She is a full blown little girl now with friends and play dates and swim lessons and gymnastics. She is ruled by emotion and thrives on positive reinforcement. She remains a strong-willed child which keeps me challenged every day, but I'm so proud of her. She is a lovely girl.

Amelie is just over two-and-a-half. She is the sweetest child. Gentle, articulate, hilariously witty for her age. She is kind, cuddly, and truly the baby of this family. She is also challenging her sister constantly, pushing Alia's very obvious emotional buttons whenever possible, and defying us with her need to be independent. She was nearly potty trained last month...we're talking panties all day, pull ups at nap time and bed time, and then it happened. One painful poop in the potty ruined our progress and she is squarely back in diapers with absolutely no tolerance for the potty at the moment. And of course the time next month we will be in Positano, Italy, and I really really wanted to travel with a potty-trained toddler. But her ideas are different than mine on that subject. Who knows. Maybe we'll figure it out by then. Oh, and another thing? Amelie, the world's worst sleeper? Has finally been sleeping through the night consistently for about a month. That's right...closer to three than two years old and just figured out the sleep thing. Needless to say we are very very happy about that.

So that's it for today. In a nutshell we are all good, very busy, enjoying our lives together, cherishing our time together as a family, and let's not forget finally able to eat out a restaurants that have more than burgers and fries on the menu, which is also priceless!

Legoland here we come!

Tomorrow the Lalvanis are heading south to Carlsbad/San Diego for a fun filled weekend with the girls. Friday, we'll be there when the gates open at Legoland, and Saturday we hope to check in with the Pandas that Ajay helped to create (through artificial insemination) during his anesthesia residency in San Diego so many years ago at the San Diego Zoo.

So, today both girls attended Montessori, I grabbed a bonus workout with my trainer since I'll be missing my Friday session, and I worked out all the details of what needed to be packed for the next two days.

A little over a year ago when we did this same trip, it was like moving an army.  The lists and lists required to move my family 80 miles was comical. Formula. Check. Bottles. Check. Bottle brush. Check. Portable potty for Alia. Check. Diapers for Amelie. Check. Baby food for Amelie. Check.

And this time? Dare I say traveling is getting just a little bit easier? Sure I have to plan multiple outfits per day for each girl, as well and Ajay's stuff and my own. Now crayons and coloring books and favorite bedtime story books replace the baby paraphernalia of yesteryear. Now it seems that we are traveling with more person than infant.

So more to come of our weekend away. I'm hoping to reclaim my blog and post more often in the latter part of 2012. Oh, and here's a current photo of the girls.